An Exercise in Passive-Aggressive Self-Justification

This football book is oddly tedious, yet curiously captivating. Its title is confusing. Dear England already names a hit play, an forthcoming television program, and a open letter penned by the manager in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t officially connected to those. It stands as an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about management: a classically dull top-level coach subject that the author adheres to doggedly, employing the words “leader”, “leading” or “management” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Questions Raised

“Who are the leaders? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” the author questions at the outset, outlining his position, but stopping short to address “When are leaders?”, questions likely set aside for a future volume.

Otherwise, this book has a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an exercise in subtly confrontational personal vindication, in nearly but not entirely expressing the underlying truth, skipping adeptly from lingering grievance to fresh pain across a assortment of pie charts, management jargon and references about Thomas Cromwell.

Engagement

Going through the book is like eavesdropping on your family members having a mannered but deeply felt disagreement in the nearby area while you’re attempting to focus on a professional workshop titled “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also impossible to stop reading, as Southgate keeps drifting near to a topic you actually wish to discover, before abruptly shifting focus.

Insights

The book contains inevitably controversial revelations in publications in this genre, explained by the rapt interest with the role of England manager. The most striking instances include: he decided he was definitely going to quit as England manager after spectators threw containers at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to forfeiting the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his team were racially abused; he invented the approach of specialist dead-ball trainers and all teams in the top division is now copying him; he has now lost his enthusiasm for football, a shocking confession briefly included in a single paragraph at the final part.

Managing England through a period of anger, aspiration, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a brutal experience. The wounds are clearly still unhealed.

Generic Content

Otherwise, the narrative is overrun with an computer-generated linguistic mush of standard guidance discourse. Copies of this book were distributed with reviewers under confidentiality clauses before publication, likely out of concern someone might disclose that “challenging discussions can, by their inherent quality, be challenging”, that you should always think before you act, that guidance occurs where evolution intersects with compassion.

Sincere Expression

Readers will find however authentic emotion here. Guiding England through a period of rage, aspiration, turmoil and lockdown was a grueling ordeal. The wounds are obviously still fresh, though presented in a terminology-heavy reinterpretation of the traditional football manager theme: why I was actually right about each issue from the start.

Specific Examples

The publication’s initial chapter, Trojan-horsed as gripping recollections of the deciding game of Euro 2024, is entirely focused on how good he in fact was at tactical substitutions (the major Southgate gripe revolving around he wasn’t good at altering the lineup). Later, he goes into significant detail about how he managed the championship match of 2021 perfectly – specifically the unsuccessful tiebreaker – because he complied with a predetermined process, which suggests that throwing on youthful talents at the last moment to take the most important kick of their lives was reasonable and accurate.

That approach was validated by a victorious tiebreaker against Switzerland at a later tournament after a game where England spent the full duration looking as if they were striving to wear a pullover the inside out. “Our dominance in that penalty decider was truly thrilling,” the author states, amid comparing the display to special forces neutralizing a high-profile target. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we come near to a disclosure, the manager withdraws from naming names or sharing the details. We discover there were difficult England individuals who insisted on more focus, possibly because they were indulged early in their time in football. But as you expect eagerly, the author is already shifting into something named a specific management theory, which asserts that rather than a collection of qualities or values, organizational ethos is in fact an element that is created by, alas, stop, we’ve heard enough.

Notable Sections

Included in the more compelling bits are when he discusses about the incremental method of developing resilience in youth, or how he sought to describe Englishness more coherently and more helpfully than any other figure in the public eye. The standout section, there is a genuinely compelling narrative of that harrowing match in Sofia where England’s African heritage squad members were targeted with hatred (and subsequently protected vigorously by their leader).

Sincere Finale

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John Newton
John Newton

A film critic with over a decade of experience, specializing in indie cinema and international film festivals.